Adoptive sister [9f] think i’m [19m] (also adopted) I won’t love her anymore after our parents have a biological child.

Last night my sister was sobbing in her room. After initially saying it was nothing, she said she thought I wouldn’t love her anymore after our sister was born (mom is 6 months pregnant) because I will love our sister more than I will love her. And she was *crying* like “she’s over, you’re never gonna love me again.” I tried to calm her down but it took a few minutes. I told her no, no one would love her any less just because we have a baby in the house. She seems to have understood a bit, but told me to *not* tell our parents because they would be mad at her, which is not true, but I imagine it would be distressing for her to think that they figured this out. For context, I was adopted when she was 10, then she was adopted when she was 6, and I was 15, almost 6 years later. So what do you do in this case? I figure telling them would be best, but I guess I don’t know how she’ll react to that. How should I go about telling them knowing that she doesn’t want them to know? **tl;dr:** The sister is sad because she believes no one will love her when she is born to mom and dad’s biological child. She doesn’t want me to tell mom and dad. What to do here?

Last night my sister was sobbing in her room. After initially saying it was nothing, she said she thought I wouldn’t love her anymore after our sister was born (mom is 6 months pregnant) because I will love our sister more than I will love her. And she was *crying* like “she’s over, you’re never gonna love me again.” I tried to calm her down but it took a few minutes. I told her no, no one would love her any less just because we have a baby in the house. She seems to have understood a bit, but told me to *not* tell our parents because they would be mad at her, which is not true, but I imagine it would be distressing for her to think that they figured this out. For context, I was adopted when she was 10, then she was adopted when she was 6, and I was 15, almost 6 years later. So what do you do in this case? I figure telling them would be best, but I guess I don’t know how she’ll react to that. How should I go about telling them knowing that she doesn’t want them to know? **tl;dr:** The sister is sad because she believes no one will love her when she is born to mom and dad’s biological child. She doesn’t want me to tell mom and dad. What to do here?

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