I’m thinking of breaking up the family.

My boyfriend (M41) and I (F41) have 2 children (7 and 4). Own a home together. They have been together for 11 years. I love it, but I don’t know if I can do this anymore. I’m so mad and sad all the time, he’s not loving unless he has a shit face. He hasn’t done it in 11 years sad because he loved me. Unless he asked her to. We bite each other all the time. I feel completely alone. I think it’s starting to affect my relationship with my kids. My patience has disappeared. I am so frustrated. We are not married, I have a low-income job and I work part time. I don’t know if he could afford me to run the house. I can’t go back to my mother’s house. That relationship is strained. I think I should move, but I can’t bear the thought of leaving my children. I feel truly trapped. What happens is that he is not a bad person. He hasn’t done anything wrong, he hasn’t cheated (that I know of), he hasn’t abused. He takes good care of us and is very hardworking. I don’t think he’d have a problem meeting anyone else. I don’t want to be with anyone else, I don’t think I have anything to offer, plus I’m horrible. I can’t talk to him about my feelings as he often just says “it’s okay”. I don’t know what to do. However, it’s 4:30 am and all I can think about is leaving. I don’t know what to do. Should I spend the next ten years of my life grabbing a little joy wherever I can? Or risk it all and I could end up worse off, my children could end up worse off. TLDRs; I am deeply unhappy in my relationship with the father of my children, but I don’t know if he could financially support me and my children. I should be going?

My boyfriend (M41) and I (F41) have 2 children (7 and 4). Own a home together. They have been together for 11 years. I love it, but I don’t know if I can do this anymore. I’m so mad and sad all the time, he’s not loving unless he has a shit face. He hasn’t done it in 11 years sad because he loved me. Unless he asked her to. We bite each other all the time. I feel completely alone. I think it’s starting to affect my relationship with my kids. My patience has disappeared. I am so frustrated. We are not married, I have a low-income job and I work part time. I don’t know if he could afford me to run the house. I can’t go back to my mother’s house. That relationship is strained. I think I should move, but I can’t bear the thought of leaving my children. I feel truly trapped. What happens is that he is not a bad person. He hasn’t done anything wrong, he hasn’t cheated (that I know of), he hasn’t abused. He takes good care of us and is very hardworking. I don’t think he’d have a problem meeting anyone else. I don’t want to be with anyone else, I don’t think I have anything to offer, plus I’m horrible. I can’t talk to him about my feelings as he often just says “it’s okay”. I don’t know what to do. However, it’s 4:30 am and all I can think about is leaving. I don’t know what to do. Should I spend the next ten years of my life grabbing a little joy wherever I can? Or risk it all and I could end up worse off, my children could end up worse off. TLDRs; I am deeply unhappy in my relationship with the father of my children, but I don’t know if he could financially support me and my children. I should be going?

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