My (20f) boyfriend (21m) wants an open relationship

We have been dating for a month and we are in a long distance relationship. We spent a week together in real life and fell in love and decided to be in a closed monogamous relationship. After splitting up, things have been going pretty well. He will visit me next week (we plan to visit every month). Last night all of a sudden he texted me that he loves me but he’s not happy with the pattern of our relationship, and that he wants an open relationship because he wants to explore his sex life, and with a closed relationship feels repressed. He said he gave a close relationship a shot (we’ve only been apart for 3 weeks) because he knows that’s what I wanted and that he loves me, but it’s just not working for him. He said that he wouldn’t feel the need for an open relationship if we lived together. I have a hard time feeling safe and loved in relationships, and I firmly believe that an open relationship will only hurt me and give me anxiety, and will probably cause me to distance myself emotionally from him. He says he feels it’s unfair that he’s willing to try to have a closed relationship with me, but I’m not willing to try to have an open relationship with him. Should I give an open relationship a fair chance even if it makes me uncomfortable? We love each other so much and I don’t know what to do. Any advice is welcome. Tl;dr: My boyfriend wants an open relationship and I want a closed one. I don’t know what to do with this situation.

We have been dating for a month and we are in a long distance relationship. We spent a week together in real life and fell in love and decided to be in a closed monogamous relationship. After splitting up, things have been going pretty well. He will visit me next week (we plan to visit every month). Last night all of a sudden he texted me that he loves me but he’s not happy with the pattern of our relationship, and that he wants an open relationship because he wants to explore his sex life, and with a closed relationship feels repressed. He said he gave a close relationship a shot (we’ve only been apart for 3 weeks) because he knows that’s what I wanted and that he loves me, but it’s just not working for him. He said that he wouldn’t feel the need for an open relationship if we lived together. I have a hard time feeling safe and loved in relationships, and I firmly believe that an open relationship will only hurt me and give me anxiety, and will probably cause me to distance myself emotionally from him. He says he feels it’s unfair that he’s willing to try to have a closed relationship with me, but I’m not willing to try to have an open relationship with him. Should I give an open relationship a fair chance even if it makes me uncomfortable? We love each other so much and I don’t know what to do. Any advice is welcome. Tl;dr: My boyfriend wants an open relationship and I want a closed one. I don’t know what to do with this situation.

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